The one thing I don’t talk about often is my anxiety. I don’t like feeling exposed because I fear people will think differently of me. It’s such a personal thing and find it hard to open up about it and say what triggers these emotions. But it should definitely be spoken about more.
I suffer from anxiety which stems from my car accident I had 3 years ago. I believe that everyone has different levels and forms of anxiety, and different ways of coping with it. The day I had my car accident I feel I lost a part of my sparkle. It’s slowly coming back now which is good but when you experience something as scary as that where your life flashes before your eyes it can take such a long time to feel yourself again. It changes your life forever!
I get anxious about driving to certain places and I get anxious about parking too close to people etc..These might seem like small things but to me, they seem huge! The fact that I’m even driving after such a huge ordeal is such an achievement and I am proud of myself for that! I actually drove 2 weeks after my car accident and have driven ever since, but it hasn’t been easy. I tell myself every day that I won’t let these bad drivers win! And that I got this! I just need to change my mindset when it comes to driving because as of right now I don’t enjoy it like I used too, I drive because I have too to. I always put my family first no matter what!
Sometimes I feel people look at ‘anxiety’ as a dirty shameful thing and of course it’s not and you should never feel ashamed. If you need help then please ask for it. There is so much support out there. And remember you are WORTHY and loved! #yougotthis
We all have different ways of coping in certain situations and for me personally, my faith and family have helped me so much in getting through these hard moments which I’m so thankful for. My confidence in driving is getting better each time I go out. I decided if in a year this still affects me then I will seek help because it’s okay to not be okay and ask for help Love always Claire Xxx.
I want to have a chat about the highs and lows of social media.
I started my blog just 1 year ago and I have been very fortunate with it.I have had an amazing year and have had some amazing opportunities come my way. I have worked with some amazing brands/companies and we have worked on some amazing media stories. I have some amazing supportive followers who say such kind things to me every day. I am truly grateful for every single one of you.There have definitely been more highs than lows, however, I have met some very unkind people along the way who don’t like to see you succeed. These people have also said; “You are not good enough” or that ” you don’t work hard enough” or that “You have missed the boat” I say; “well you try being a mum of 9 who lives rural and home schools her children full-time. I do what I can with my blog and it gives me so much Joy to write and put content out there for everyone to read. I work very hard at everything I do. I put my heart and soul into everything I write. I am learning new things every day and will continue to build on my craft. I let most things go over my head but I have my bad days. I am only human after all. Being a mother is a tough gig no matter how many kids you have!I want to continue to inspire people and share my life experiences and even if it only helps one person then I’m happy. I’m not a perfect writer but I write because I’m passionate about it.Instagram is an amazing outlet and can be a very supportive place, it’s also a great place to connect with other mum’s. I will always be real, raw and honest with you. It’s important to never let anyone bring you down! You do you! And I will do me! We are all on a journey. Everything I do is for my family and family and faith will always come first above all else. Always be your authentic self and don;t ever let anyone bully you or tell you to be a certain way. Its none of their business how you lead your life.
Be careful not to get sucked into the dark side of social media. There is so much ‘fakeness’ on social media and it’s important not to believe everything that you see or read.
Be kind always because you don’t know what the other person could be going through Support each other always The negative nancie’s wont ever stop me from doing what I love!I am here for the long haul.
Thanks for your ongoing support Love always Claire X.
As you all know by now, I am a mum of nine children under eleven and we also officially home-school six out of our nine children. As a registered home school under the N.E.S.A, we are eligible to participate in the Woolworth’s earn learn program which is super exciting!. We participated in last years program and collected a significant amount of stickers and were able to get a few small supplies for our school. This year we aim to go bigger and do better than last year. We hope you can help us achieve this too! let’s all stick together!
This year our school has been given an earn and learn promotions pack which also includes a huge collection box to place in our local Woolworths store! We are super excited!
In 2017, when Woolworths last ran Earn & Learn, they had over 15,000 schools and ELC’s involved and delivered over 300,000 pieces of equipment for science and technology, maths, arts, and more to kids all over Australia. How awesome is that!
Please support our home-school by collecting stickers at Woolworths from May 1st till June 25th! We will have a collection box in the Queanbeyan Woolworths store.
8am, and the older girls wander down with a basket to the hen house , it’s time
to feed the chickens and collect fresh eggs! There is laughing and giggling and
they are all excited to reach down and pick up fresh warm eggs! It’s a great
start to each day and they are the kinds of moments we love in our life. There
is pure fresh happiness, a house full of little girls and a handsome little boy
and a wonderful husband. It really is a daily adventure.
husband Mark, 36, and, I live in a
little rural town near Canberra with our nine
children, yes, that’s right 9 children! Eight girls, and one boy! Their names
are: Georgina, Charlotte, Franchesca, Abigail, Catherine, Elizabeth, Rose, Martina,
have a busy, but well-managed household. Every day at our house we always fun,
full of love, joy happiness and laughter! Living in a rural town is lovely, but
it also has it’s disadvantages too. We do not have any shops and travel 45kms
to get groceries and other normal day items.
lot of people ask me “how do you cope with a large family” or
“do have a TV? Or “Your husband must be a CEO!”
always say that although life is hard it’s hard for the right reasons. A large
family is a blessing a truly wonderful experience. Honestly it’s really not
that bad, we just do what we have to do and draw strength from our Christian
Faith. We have hard days like anyone else, and sometimes life throws some
difficult challenges our way, but I would not have it any other way! We have
also been very smart, and fortunate, with our finance. We purchased our home in
an affordable and up and coming area and only 45 minutes from the Capital
Canberra. My husband works full-time and I stay at home looking after and
home schooling the children. Life is good!
1:30 pm we stop our busy day for some lunch and some garden play! The children
absolutely love being in the garden with the animals! I capture these special
moments on camera , as really, every day is a special day! I know that my
husband and I will cherish these moments forever!
a family of 11, 1 dog, 7 hens, 2 ducks (and a few spiders and snakes), it is
very important to shop around and find the best deals! We do our grocery
shopping once a fortnight at Aldi and we set a budget of $500- $600
for our food shopping. Petrol money and bills
money is kept separate, However, I do keep some extra money aside for any other
extra expenses we have throughout the fortnight. We buy 48 litres of milk, 3
kilogram blocks of cheese, 3 pouring creams and 2 thickened creams. That’s a
lot of dairy!
like to meal plan for the fortnight. I think it is very important to meal plan.
We do sometimes shop at Costco, Coles and
Woolworths to see what’s on special. For Sundays we often buy a really big pork
and cut it in half. We cook 1 half for Sunday roast, and then use the other
half the following Sunday. otherwise we buy 2 chickens. We boil the left over’s
and use it to make a curry the following night.
If you want to save money on petrol, birthday cakes or other items I recommend
going to your nearest Costco store. (if you have one) You can find some of the
best deals here.
We shop around for the best insurance policies. We have an awesome deal at
Saint George Bank for our vehicles (through Alliance), and home and contents
insurances. We bank with service one for our mortgage and main accounts, and so
far we have found them the best bank to deal with. They also are very good to
bank with, if you have a larger family, they treat you fairly from our
save money by not buying too many luxuries and finding the best deals. We have
seven hens and two ducks which we free range and get a good quantity of eggs. We
also have been growing some vegetables
and fruit which has been really great for us!. Another smart way to save money
is by opening up a Christmas club account with your bank. Ours does not let you
withdraw the money until November 1st. We try to put $150 in the account once a
Month. Holidays are ad hoc when we have available funds but we normally get
away for 2 weeks per year.
are not penny pinchers, dole bludgers or anything in
between. We work hard, save money and do the right thing for our family and
community. We are not big spenders either. We always
make it work no matter what! No one ever goes without. We are adaptable and
able to adjust our budget needs if and when we need to.
it comes to buying clothes and shoes I like to shop at places like Kmart,
Target, Best & Less, Big W and even charity shops like St Vincent De’Paul.
My mother in law is a hairdresser and often cuts the kids hair for me which is wonderful
and a big benefit for us. Not everything has to cost money, like days out etc,
why not take a picnic in the park or go to your local botanical garden? Lakes,
beaches national parks and bush walks are also great ways to enjoy time with
your family. Be creative with your
ideas. Kids will absolutely love that!
the birth of my 9th child, I decided that I wanted to lose weight and
lead a healthier lifestyle. I did some research and came across the Keto diet.
I have been doing this diet now for almost 9 months, and I have lost 23 kilos.
I hope to lose another 8 kilos over the next few months! I am feeling fantastic
after shedding so much weight! If you would like to know more about the Keto
diet and how it has helped me then see my social media including blog for my
typical day is very busy but after baths, dinner and other activities we are now
finished and snuggled up on the, very large, lounge together. We talk about our
day, how we are all feeling and what the new day will bring. We look at our tribe
with so much pride, love and joy it makes us so happy!
8:30 pm it’s time to be tucked into bed and get comfy with bedtime stories. My
husband and I use this time to reflect on our day, discuss the future and enjoy
each other’s company.
(my husband and I) feel so incredibly blessed to have our family. We thank God
for our blessings and graces. We are no different to anyone else. We are part
of your community. We are Australians.