Today I feel anxious but I also feel grateful for a second chance at life! On this day 3 years ago I had a car accident and it was a pretty nasty one. My eldest daughter and I were heading out grocery shopping for the day. We were only a couple of minutes into our journey when we saw another car that was driving erratically and ended up in the middle of the road, to avoid a head-on with the other vehicle we swerved out of the way. The other car sped off! I tried really realign my car back on the wet road but unfortunately, I was unsuccessful 😭 My car became out of control and there was nothing I could do. The fear I felt was like nothing I’ve ever felt before!
My life flashed before my eyes! I thought we were going to die 😭 My car spun 3 times and before I knew it we were rolling a few times until we hit a tree in a ditch on the other side of the road. Luckily emergency services and my husband came very quickly. There were no broken bones, and only just a few cuts and grazes. At the time of this car accident, I was 6 weeks pregnant with Martina and thank God everything was okay. The hospital was very good and just said I had whiplash. I went home after a few hours. Even to this day I still suffer badly with chronic neck and back pain but when I think of the alternative there is no comparison We never found the other driver which is a shame! I do drive now! I have too. I still get anxious and I’m over cautious on the road. I don’t enjoy driving like I used to, but life must go on On this anniversary I feel anxious but I also feel so thankful for my life and my kid’s lives.
You probably won’t listen to the advice below as I know from experience how stubborn you can be! But here goes;
Don’t grow up too fast and don’t get mixed up with the wrong crowd, I know you just want to look cool and fit in but honestly hun it’s not worth it! Just be yourself! Growing up in South East England is hard! Trust me I know!
You have a heart of gold and please don’t let anyone take advantage of that!
You will eventually find out who your true friends are! It will hit you like a ton of bricks but it’s better to know the truth right?!
Don’t let those horrible school bullies win, I know it’s easier said than done, but believe me, they are only doing it because they have issues themselves or because they think it makes them look ‘well hard’ But in reality, they just look plain stupid!
I know you have been bullied for a long time and the teachers don’t care! And I know it’s upsetting! But please don’t cry! Be brave and hold your head up high and walk away. You are worth so much more than they will ever be!
I see a bright and exciting future for you. Just keep looking ahead!
Stay away from those rowdy stinky teenage boys they will only break your heart time and time again! Don’t waste your precious tears on them! One day you will meet the love of your life 🤗
Claire when you are at school I don’t want to hear any more of “I can’t do it” because I know you can! You are smart and have a great imagination! Believe in yourself because you will and can do great things!
“Don’t blow dry your fringe like that babe! because it looks like a tunnel! Is that really the fashion? 90’s trend is a strange one for sure!
Hug your family more and tell them you love them because you don’t know what’s around the corner.
Life’s to short to be miserable and hold grudges. Forgive and forget and then you will feel a peace within you.
Claire be confident and smile more. Let that amazing personality of yours shine. You are WORTHY and unique. You have your whole life ahead of you! Be kind to yourself and learn to love yourself more. Stay strong and keep going, hun!